Tom Anstee joined the 1st Kings Dragoon Guards on 6 Sept 1898 and is listed on the medal roll as 'Dead' - he died at Klip River, now in KwaZulu-Natal, on the 23rd Sept 1903.
Astee left £9-10-2d to be divided among his family, my grandfather, his brother James got £1-18-1d.